Is it better to change consumer behavior or go with the flow?

Sociologically philosophically, and also… Entrepreneurially this is a super fascinating thought:

Is it better to just go with the flow, and feed into the desires of people? Or is it better to just disrupt the whole playbook?

My first idea is that it is probably more fun and interesting to swim opposite the current, this is what makes muscles.

So for example, if you just go with Tran just become another emaciated dying antelope looking CrossFit long distance runner. I have never seen a fit cross fitter.

Instead, people are telling me that I look like Cristiano Ronaldo now, with my fabulously big muscles, sharp jawline ,,, and I think one thing I appreciate about the honesty and candor of the Cambodian people is that for the most part, they have no egos; they do not value their own self-worth in comparison to you, this is what I think is a toxic eagle. A healthy ego a good ego is an ego in which your ego is self predicated, not on others but only you.

Anyways, all Cambodian tell me that I am universally handsome, which is great for my self-esteem. And they are not lying.

Anyways, how to make things cool and great again.

So the first thought is yeah I think it is wise to just like be the creator of new values. Nietzsche would have been proud of me.

So for example, people who just follow trends, they are just also like lemmings just waiting to get slaughtered. One interesting guy I met in San Jose, at a random Starbucks coffee shop, kind of told me something interesting about words, how words are so powerful.

So for example, Facebook, the feed… If you think about a slaughterhouse, they feed the cows grain, on a treadmill, before they slaughter them. When you enter your newsfeed, it is the same thing. Except, they are plumping you up on toxic news, or toxic feed.

Let me give you an example. Let us say that you have the option of feeding your child the finest Wagyu hundred percent grass fed beef, that has been hand fed the finest grass, with the maximum amount of sunshine, massaged, and can listen to Mozart and Bach. Or you could give your kid toxic chicken McNugget sludge or worse… So you infuse high fructose corn syrup. What would you feed your kid?

I think like social media feeds are like the new toxic corn syrup sludge, except, it is even worse.

I think it is like a strange like opium, it does really weird things to people. It kind of like a combination of a sedative, opioid and drug, that is both stimulating but also paralyzing?

For example, my only good goal in life is like a good night sleep, 9 to 12 hours, maximum movement during the day, maximum physical and muscular vigor, sharp mind, precise body. Even with strength, when I’m starting to realize is maybe the joy is before I lift something heavier, 552 kg is currently my record, The general idea is that like do you have the joyful audacity before the lift, ,,, And I think actually, mood and physiological vigor are tied to one another.

So for example, there is an interesting Cambodian proverb, to see the news of the heart, look at their face. What this means is that, you could really really see the physiological health being state of somebody just by looking at their face!

So what’s also great about being here in Cambodia, all the kids are like insanely happy, full of energy and vigor, running around and super happy. Same thing with young people in their university years, highschoolers, middle schoolers, and even kids in their 20s. Everyone is always smiling joyful, and I think it is a consequence of the culture of just like letting kids be kids and run around, and also, there is certainly a culture of laissez faire of children: they just let the kids be kids run around make a mess or whatever, that’s what kids do! I think in America there is this weird like anti-child ethos, in which it is OK for your dog to bark and make a mess, and poop in public or whatever, or pee in public, yet children are given no freedoms? Very strange.